When we hear the word "Goth" why do we turn our backs and think oh that's something bad and try to stay away from it and them? Why don't we feel sympathy for them? A person becomes a goth because of hurt and lack of love. We should not turn away from but reach out to them. I have a Friend who is a goth and she has told me more than once she is a goth because she hurts so much and feels that the only way to get someone to notice her is to be like that.